What do you like in a coach?

Things I like in a coach: 

  • being really directive, confident, and self-assured (but not a dick, obvs)
  • making me sometimes do push ups (I like push ups)
  • running intense sessions that involve a lot of moving and a lot of sweat
  • telling me exactly what they expect from a drill or skill and when I do it right. 
    (I don't like being told I'm doing it wrong; I'll assume it's wrong until told otherwise).

It took me awhile to be able to really understand why I liked some training sessions better than others and why some frustrated me more than others.  And it pretty much boils down to those things up there ^ ^ ^. 

When I started coaching, guess how I coached...  

Well... I was really directive and a bit bolshy.

Annnnd I dished out loads of push ups.

Annnnnnnd I didn't stand for a lot of dithering about and pushed people constantly.

Annnnnnnnnnd I explained things quite specifically and gave lots of feedback. 

So, I pretty much ran sessions the way I would love them if I were skating.  Which makes sense to a point... like when you go to someone's house, your mum always says to behave like you would like them to behave in your home (i.e no swinging from the chandeliers). 

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It didn't take too terribly long to figure out that not everyone likes to be coached the way I do... not everyone likes push ups (*wtaf?*) and some people don't want me to drone on about weight distribution, they want to go and distribute their weight without me. 

What's taking a bit longer is figuring out how to still be me, but a me that supports everyone, not just the people just like me.   

I'm a work in progress.  But aren't we all?  

What do you like in a coach?